06-15-2010, 01:10 PM | #24 |
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I don't know how you could still define her as your girlfriend.... The situation makes no sense. She is an ex you just haven't let go of yet... That's all....
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06-15-2010, 01:23 PM | #26 |
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agreed. too fucking weird but w.e
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Also you guys should read about our bodily chemistry and how we react to relationships... because once you cut society out of the equation, our natural approach towards relationships tend to be open. I personally haven't participated in them but have done a little bit of reading to try to understand the dynamics. Back to the OP, I think this might be the signal to yourself that you aren't completely happy with the current situation and need a change of direction.
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open relationships are for mature, experienced, seasoned adults...not kids...and OP...in case you do not know, you are a kid...
Time to face the music, she is just not that into you...and for multiple reasons she can't/won't break-up with you...time to move on Maybe you can have your parents arrange something
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And my parents tried to arrange a marriage for me when I was younger.. but then I came to America.. so yeah :P Quote:
and poly relationships aren't common but do occur.. as my girl and i are an example of. she just seems to be 'doing it wrong' As I've been able to see this other girl for months without letting it get in the way of our relationship Quote:
I agree with the need of a change of direction. But I for one have never been single in my 'adult' (yes I'm still a kid, but legally after the age of 18 you're an adult....).. so that may be one reason why I haven't wanted to lose the 'bf/gf' title. I guess since this is a challenge...I may still be in it? My secondary gives me no problems... which is why I like it.. but I guess it's too 'easy' or 'simple'? A question to which I do not have a complete answer for :/ Thanks again everyone for your responses
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I guess I should be happy my biggest problem in life right now is only something like this......
and nothing too 'serious' or 'bad' etc (other than my burning eye... but that should be gone in a week; and my stupid HPFP about to go out...)
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Be careful, though: your gf may not be as mature as you regarding the discernment between her relationship with you and one that she may develop outside of it. Just trying to see things from all angles. You really can't rule anything out.
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I'm not ruling this out at all; as this is why I feel she is 'doing it wrong' If she was able to discernment between our relationship and someone else, than there wouldn't really be this 'problem' I guess I should have mentioned this, but this mainly started because she has always been a little bi curious but has never done anything... she met a woman she felt attracted to/that she liked... so she offered this open relationship... so that she could pursue this woman without guilt etc later, when she pussied out (no pun intended), she mentioned that maybe she would want to see other guys for the experience only Now, this is where the 'problem' arrises... she's, as stated, not being able to separate casual sexual encounters/interest and a relationship To quote her: "this is my first time doing this, and this is all I know how to do" Well, it's my first time too....
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Tell her you want to experiment with said female as well, have a threesome, call it a day.
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I guess it would be best to sit down with her and really discuss what intentions are being had, here.
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OP, you still have not addressed how you feel regarding the possibility of her sucking some dude's dick, him nutting her mouth, and then her coming home and kissing you.
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She just needs to 'man' up (for loss of a better word) and approach this woman I personally did agree to have a 3some with this new guy... mainly because I've had a 3some with 2 girls and a 4some (2 girls 2 guys), but never a 3some where 2 males dominate a woman... And we have sat down and spent hours on end talking about this... I told her she needs to talk to more people... as she mainly reads and talks to her best friend (who, IMHO, is a slut... even though my gf does not think so... she feels that if a woman makes the decision to go to a bar, pick someone up to fuck them, and that's that.. it's 'alright;' which by all means is 'alright' but to me, male or female, that would define them as a slut... now going out a few times and then having sex is a bit of a difference; but this is a wholeeee another matter)
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and we don't live together.. so she wouldn't really 'come home' to me.. ever. I told her I don't want to live together But to your statement: you meet a girl, you start talking, and you start having sex with this said girl. How do you know when the last time she sucked dick before was? How do you know she wasn't doing it the day before you went out? Only if you have sex with virgins and only virgins can you expect to be the only male to have penetrated her and cummed in her mouth
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one important note though...
people who want to cheat will cheat (I learned this the hard way years ago) people who want to fuck will fuck... So I'm happy she's at least open.. and giving me the chance to do it... and knowing that I can break it off etc.. Just a thought...
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Aonarch is always posting that lol.
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