[Quietlife]

I originally put this in the UK forum but didn’t get a solution so trying here.

I had my car updated to 03/2021 in March. I briefly saw the AA symbol in the menu when I left the dealership. By the time I got home it had disappeared. (I have a phone running Android 11)

Absolutely nothing I do can make it appear. I’ve reset the idrive, done a factory reset, reconnected my phone. Nothing works.
The phone is seeing AA in the car, but the car won’t do anything.
Is there a solution to this. I’m ready to drive this car into a lake due to the diabolical software